South Africa: Breaking Free from Abuse

Lindiwe Mofokeng’s story is one of courage and transformation. A survivor of domestic violence, she faced homelessness after her boyfriend ended their relationship. With nowhere to put her shack, Lindiwe felt trapped. In desperation, she agreed to date another man who offered her space in his yard. What seemed like a lifeline quickly turned into another nightmare—he began abusing her physically and emotionally, bringing other women into the house and controlling her life. Unemployed and dependent, Lindiwe feared leaving because it meant losing her shack and becoming homeless again. 

Her reality was a cycle of fear, poverty, and abuse—until she found the strength to seek help. 

The Turning Point 

Lindiwe ran to a local GBV support organization and was admitted to a shelter. For six months, the shelter became her haven and a place of healing. Here, she received more than protection—she gained skills, confidence, and hope. 

While at the shelter: 

• She saved her UIF income after losing her previous job.
• I learned practical skills like sewing curtains, bags, and blankets.
• Acquired computer literacy, enabling her to type her own CV.
• Received assistance to secure affordable housing—a two-roomed house within her budget.
• With police and social worker support, she retrieved her shack and belongings from her abuser’s yard. The organization even paid for the moving truck.
• Starter groceries were provided to help her rebuild her life. 

 These interventions gave Lindiwe the foundation to start anew. 

The Change 

Today, Lindiwe rents her own home and works as a farm worker, earning income and living independently. She is safe, confident, and no longer reliant on abusive relationships for survival. 

“I am so happy. Now I can live freely and do what I want without being afraid of that man who was abusing me. I am grateful for the shelter for helping me get a place to stay and giving me a new start in life.” — Lindiwe Mofokeng 

 Her transformation has inspired those around her: “This is great for Lindiwe. She is now so happy at her new place. She has confidence and self-esteem, and she can take care of herself financially without depending on any man.” — Selina Cindi 

 “This is a great achievement for Lindiwe. She is now safe and has a home to stay in. She will no longer be coming to the police station for shelter.” — Police Officer 

 Evidence of Impact 

• Lindiwe’s rented two-roomed house.
• Her employment as a farm worker.
• Skills gained in sewing and computer literacy.
• Successful retrieval of her shack and belongings with official support. 

Sustainability and Next Steps 

Lindiwe’s independence is anchored in her determination. She plans to: 

• Work hard to maintain her current job.
• Apply for better opportunities with improved pay and working hours. 

• Continue using her skills to supplement her income. 

  Her story is a powerful reminder that safe spaces and empowerment programs can break cycles of abuse and restore dignity. With the right support, survivors can reclaim their lives and build a future free from violence. 

  By, Khumbudzo simethi, Bethlehem